Is Assumption Destroying Your Relationship?

If you can just come to the realization that you are assuming – become conscious of this behavioral pattern in yourself – you can begin to change it and in doing so you can save yourself a lot of anguish that, more often than not, leads to so much heartache and misunderstanding.

Why ‘Heart Talk’ is SO Important

When we communicate with our hearts we first open a space for dialogue to begin. A dialogue that is receptive as well as giving — where you give a person a chance to speak and they reciprocate.

The Secret Game That Brought My Soul Mate to Me

Let's Get the Mushy Stuff Over Quick My hubby and I just celebrated being married for 21 years on the 8th August. We live and work together from home,  we're also in a band together (if you're curious George, you can check out our original music HERE, we call ourselves Templeton Universe) — so we're... Continue Reading →

2 Things People in Relationships Forget About that Lead to Disaster

As I began to wake up this morning and my dreary, sleepy eyes adjusted to my surrounds — a thought popped into my head. In fact 2 thoughts managed to creep in there. I wondered why I was having these thoughts — as they seemed totally unrelated to the happy dream I was having about... Continue Reading →

How to Recognize a Dream Thief

Deepak Chopra implied in his book, The Book of Secrets (very good and worth a read!), that one should hold on to some dreams and desires and keep ones cards close to ones chest. In other words, there are some goals you should never share with others — they are personal and that kind of... Continue Reading →

How to Heal and Unite Your Inner Feminine and Masculine

To recap on this blog series with transformational coach, Tracy Russell, please first read: Ever Wanted to Fly? (Blog 1) Do You Know the Difference Between Your Superconscious and Subconscious Mind? (Blog 2) Cherie: What are we going to be delving into this time? Tracy: This week we’ll be exploring the feminine attributes represented below by... Continue Reading →

Only 50 Shades of Grey — What Happened to the Rest?

Despicable Me Not only have I not (double negative, I know) read the sizzling book but I also have no intention of playing in the shadows of this steamy novel — pretty much based on the fact that all I know about it is its reputation for sexual explicitness. What I do intend to do... Continue Reading →

How to Blow Off Steam with Impeccability

Are You Speaking Badly About Someone or Merely Speaking the Truth? I pray on the principle that wine knocks the cork out of a bottle.  There is an inward fermentation, and there must be a vent. ~Henry Ward Beecher Here’s a difficult topic — are you a gossiping Gerty or is your mouth sealed so tight,... Continue Reading →

5 Fundamental Steps to a Thriving Relationship

“Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.” — Bruce Lee

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